When it comes to not having success with women, for men it usually comes down to committing one of these Seven Deadly Sins of Dating. You Give Her Flowers or Candy: This is perhaps the most deadly of all sins when dating a woman. Flowers and candy tell a woman that you give up and that she has captured your heart and devotion forever. While it is true that perhaps you don't feel that way that's what candy and flowers tell a girl so when she gets them early on in dating it means you are either a loser or a really bad liar and for men that equals a lose-lose situation. You Give Away Your Power, Especially to Her: You always want to come across as strong and in control when you are with a woman. The moment you give in to a woman's demands it lets her know that you are not as strong and in control as she thought. If she can easily take your power then she also knows that when a real threat arises then he also will be able to take your power as well. You are Predictable: Women Love a challenge. If every time you go out she has no idea what is going to happen it creates excitement and attraction in seeing you. Whereas when a woman knows what is going to happen she becomes very bored. You Limit Yourself: Many men settle for women that are less than they deserve or want because of their own limiting beliefs and thoughts. Many more men simply limit the type of women they go after to those women with whom they know they like. Women come in all different types of flavors until you know that you don't like a different type keep your eyes open to all opportunities. You Act too Interested: The more interest you show in a woman the less interested she becomes in you. Part of any woman's attraction to you is based on your disinterest. Reveal your interest too soon and you will lose her. You Keep Calling Her: You only talk to a woman on the phone to set up a meeting or a date. Once you are face to face with her is the time you use to spend getting to know her doing it over the phone just lets her know how scared of rejection you really are and real women don't find insecure men attractive. You Are a Negative Person: Women love to bitch but hate bitches. Never complain or be negative even if she is. Your goal is to have a fun and exciting time in a positive way, although putting people down or speaking bad about someone might seem like fun it really isn't and a woman will pick up on this and associate whatever type of feelings you show her with you. If you speak positively she will see you as a positive person IF you speak negatively she will see you as a negative person. Overall the Seven Deadly Sins of Dating comes down to your inner game, the higher your self-esteem and belief system is the less likely you are to commit one of these seven deadly sins of dating. However considering that you are just beginning on your quest to improve yourself or not it would be wise to remember them so that the women that you are dating will also get the sense that you have a strong inner game and in turn find you much more attractive. |
